Changed hearts

A softer heart!


That exactly what Eli has done to Moi. Me, I've always been kinda push over. If anything, Eli has helped me speak up for myself. But with Moi, he really has touched him. A great example is my sisters baby. I decided to ask Moi about checking out my sisters baby last week, wasn't sure about his reaction, but he was so cool about it. I was so shocked how he responded to me. He amazes me everyday. Moi has truly changed, and for the best. But to say it's ALL Moi would be a lie. It truly is Eli's sweet spirit that has touched Moi. Eli is such an angel. He is Moi's BEST blessing with out a doubt. I was never sure if Moi would ever change his views on some things and I had become ok with it. I love that crazy man, so I learned to live with it. I kinda just ignored that part of him. But yesterday I saw a side of Moi that made my heart just melt. It gave me the biggest smile on my face. 


So, yesterday I called my sister up after Moi had texted me about my sisters gender ultrasound. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw the text. I had to read it twice to make sure it was real. I remember mentioning it to Moi, but wasn't really sure if he was on board. And I didn't wanna be a bother to him about such a touchy subject. (There have been a few issues with my sister and her hubby and us.) Wish it wasn't like that, but again, we gotta work on it. So you can imagine how I felt when Moi was all up for doing my sisters ultrasound. She was pretty excited and to be honest I was too. She's hoping to find the gender out before her hubby takes off. He's in the military :( Any who, my sister came by, so she could follow us to the hospital, but Eli was sleeping so I had to stay behind, NO FUN! They were hoping to see if he could see the gender, but unfortunately he didn't wanna give a 100% on what he "thinks" might be the babies gender. He has an idea, but didn't wanna say yes, and then No. So we are gonna wait till' the babes is a week older and check again next week. I'm actually pretty excited. Moi gave in, even though I told him NOT to and told me what he thinks the gender of the baby is. I wonder. If it is what he thinks it is, aww man I'm gonna die. But we'll have to wait and see. 


Well, after Moi did her ultrasound he calls me. I was kinda nervous to answer, but I did. And his voice was amazingly happy. Happy?! "So I told your sister if she needs anything, even if it's during the night I told her to call me." Yeah that was one of the first sentences he said. Who was this that I was talking too. And why was he so upbeat. Wait, what?! I was a lil' baffled, but so relieved that he was so cool about this whole thing. You see Moi has a HUGE soft spot for babies. His spot, as I call it, didn't really soften till' Lil' man came into his world. Into ours. I can't believe it, even though our Lil' man was def. a shock, I would never take him back. I feel Eli was meant to be in our lives, at this moment for the moments that we would have done differently. See earlier in my posts, I wrote that this baby was meant for something. I wasn't sure yet what it was, but there was a reason God gave them this baby. Maybe this baby will break that awkward feeling we all have. Maybe, he or she is our lil' ice breaker. Our lil' light of fire. Who knows, maybe he or she is meant to really bring ALL of us together.